“Wabi Sabi” is a small and lovely book that feels good in the hand – and the heart.
Beth Kempton, an Englishwoman, has spent much of her life enchanted with Japanese culture. In this 2018 book, she tries to explain the elusive and pervasive concept of “wabi sabi”, rarely analyzed in methodical fashion in Japan. “Wabi sabi” isn’t even a written word you can find in a Japanese dictionary, though it is part of the spoken language. It brings together deep currents of thought and aesthetics with a long history in the country.
Wabi, Kempton says, is “about finding beauty in simplicity, and a spiritual richness and serenity in detaching from the material world.” It “implies a stillness, with an air of rising above the mundane. It is an acceptance of reality and the insight that comes with that. It allows us to realize that whatever our situation, there is beauty hiding somewhere.”
Sabi is generally recognized “as the patina of age, weathering, tarnishing, and signs of antiquity… It is a representation of the way all things evolve and perish and can evoke an emotional response in us, often tinged with sadness, as we reflect on the evanescence of life.”
Kempton explores in ways both poetic and practical how these concepts, separately and together, can help us appreciate and live our lives more fully. And also – more gently.
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Fundamentally, I suppose, it is a book about paying attention. You only have this moment once.
It is a book about putting down your cell phone and stepping outside.
It’s a book about Japanese culture, but – just as pointedly, and specifically – about how we Westerners make ourselves unhappy.
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In one chapter, focused on nature, Kempton notes that:
According to the Classical Japanese calendar, there are in fact twenty-four small seasons known as sekki, each lasting around fifteen days, and seventy-two micro seasons known as ko, each lasting around five days. The calendar was originally adopted from China in AD 862 and eventually reformed to suit the local climate (particularly around Kyoto) by court astronomer Shibukawa Shunkai in 1684. Each of these subseasons and microseasons has a name, which paints an evocative picture of what is going on in the natural world at that particular time.
A quick tour of the year with some of my favorite micro season names would include: “East wind melts the ice,” “Nightingales sing,” “Mist starts to hover,” “Cherry blossoms open,” “Silkworms hatch,” “Grain ripens,” “Hot winds arrive,” “Earth is steaming wet,” “Blanket fog descends,” “Rice ripens,” “Swallows leave,” “First frost,” and “North wind rattles the leaves.”
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In my yard right now, the microseasons are…
White blossoms appear on blackberry vine ~
Small peaches grow ~
Midges find roses ~
Water drops rest on dianthus petals ~
While peonies dream of heaven.
How delightful! I love the idea of microseasons, and the call for us to notice the subtle changes in our environment. Some are so fleeting, like the brief but glorious blooming of the peonies!
It has absolutely made my day to hear from you, Sara! Sending much love your way. Xoxo
A regular post that unfortunately is no longer being sent out was on the microseasons along with prompts for writing haiku. It was one of my favorites. And wabi-sabe is such a meaningful concept. Thanks especially for the book recommendations. A purchase will follow! Peace, LaMon
Good morning, LaMon! I will be so interested to hear what you think of the book… please let me know! Xoxo
Beautiful. Since reading a book called “Wabi Sabi Love” many years ago, I have a different appreciation for the beauty or gift of imperfection – a small crack in a ceramic vase, for instance, or even in our relationships as we grow older. Like the micro seasons, Wabi Sabi highlights such an important lesson of mindfulness – impermanence, the awareness that everything in our minds, our bodies, and the world around us is changing all the time.
To me, that’s a freeing thought, particularly when I’m feeling anxious in the moment.
It is a freeing thought, Sara, and you put it so beautifully. This too shall pass. With all that means. Xoxo
Thank you, Jennifer, for this especially lovely Sunday morning mediation. And as always, the photos are a beautiful accompaniment.
It always makes me happy to hear from you, Ophelia! I’m sorry not to have seen you lately! Xoxo
This is a wonderfully inspiring Sunday morning post. Thank you. The concept, photos, and book recommendation are all timely and appreciated as I prepare to take off the first summer in over 30 years. I will be paying attention to the microseasons in Delaware, and those within my body and soul. xox=D
Oh Denise, you have an important season of life ahead! I know you will be paying attention. You always have. Xoxo
Thank you, Jennifer, for your lovely, peaceful and inspiring post. I especially appreciated the beautiful flowers in your garden, reminding me that we are all flowers in God’s garden.
I am sitting in my morning meditation and spiritual readings still reeling from emotions evoked last night in attending a memorial for my dear friend’s granddaughter, Josy, who died in a fiery car crash with 4 other friends. She was a sophomore in high school and a shooting star of a soul who burned brightly in her life, as was so well spoken by her family and friends. It was an achingly beautiful and heartbreaking memorial.
Your posts and connections across our states touches me reminding me that we are all connected and life is brief, cherish the moments. Your posts reminds me of that.
Again, thank you and all of the others who post comments, very comforting and powerful.
Prayers and love to all,
Paulette (here in California)
Dear Paulette, I am very sorry to hear of this terrible loss. I can only imagine the grief that must be coursing through your community right now. Prayers for endurance in the face of all we cannot understand. Xoxo
24 seasons, gasp! –thank you for the reminder to pay attention
Lovely Jennifer. I must get this book. And I think the author would love your garden. Can’t wait to see your photographs from Japan
Jack